Love and In Love

Hello blogfam...hp you had a grt weekend...mine was great, had a fantastic pool party, so u know its the Beyonce season..this is me channeling my inner beyonce..getting all personal and stuff on this post. Okay so I was going thru Linda Ikeji's blog few days ago and I saw a post on loving someone and being in love with someone. The funniest thing is i have been thinking about the same topic for awhile now and reading the comments on that post has just compounded my fears.

People never seem to understand when I tell them that being in love is different from loving someone. I can love someone and not be in love with them....when you are in love with someone, you can practically do anything for the person..u dont even have any interest in cheating and you would go to any length to see the person happy....while you loving someone means maybe you have been with the person for awhile and then you become comfortable and feel secure with the person...

I believe if you are in love with someone...you can never get tired or bored of the person or the relationship. People will rather love someone than be in love with the person, because being in love means your guard is down and that's scary. Also I think its easier for a girl to fall in love with a boy...rather than a boy falling in love with the girl

One of the reasons why I have not found a bf is cos I have felt what it feels like to be in love with someone and now my biggest fear is that I wont find someone who would be in love with me. I actually think its a great disservice to yourself to settle in a relationship but its hard cos looking at all the relationships around me...I have found only one relationship where i can see that the boy is in love with the girl......all the other ones, the girls are the ones in love.

Anyways enuf of the story..i just hope my wish comes true and I can fall in love with someone who will also be in love with me.

So what do you guys think..do you think there's a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone ...or  do you think its just fairytale.......

The 21st Century Gold-Diggers

 
Happy new year blogfam..welcome to 2014. May it be a year of extraordinary success, Favour and joy....First of all I hv to apologize for my long unexplained absence....am soooooo sorry. I got really busy with school work and when I got on break...I just became too lazy to post anything. Hp u guys forgive me?

So you know how guys can never stop talking about how girls are gold-diggers and all they want is their money...blah blah...okay maybe some girls like to ask boys for money but boys enjoy giving the girls....anyways all that one has changed ....we now have a new breed of gold-diggers...nd who are the mighty ones..drumroll please......BOYS

Boys are the new gold-diggers...u guys think am lying...just keep reading...the thing is you may not notice cos boys dig for gold with style and panache....even you tht they are digging the gold from sef will probably not notice...you would just think its love and affection....

Okay so am back in Naija for hols...nd it's bin pretty fun...okay so there's this guy..let's call him Mr Y, Mr Y and I met through a friend and we had been chatting for awhile....he stays in Naija..so we planned to meet up wen I cme to Naija...during all the time we were chatting on the phone, I noticed some things like he never has money...thts all he ever spoke abt...also wen we started chatting...the first thing he wrote was 'My Princess'...*eyes rolling* bt am trying not be judgmental...so I didn't say anything but my antennas went up.

So wen I got back to Naija..we decided to meet up at a restaurant..trust me he was not my idea..wud rather go to a cinema or something more fun...restaurant dates are boring and you have to talk a lot...anyways we met up at a fast food place....wen I saw him, he seemed very cool and we were really getting on well..the time to order nw came...me am on a diet...so I just ordered for rice and fish, and thts how our uncle started to order...he ordered for pounded yam, Efo Riro, chicken, fish, assorted meat ..also 4 meat pies and two pieces of chicken as takeaway...I was sha looking at him...he was like do you want anything else..I was like no am okay...he was like order anything oo..dnt be shy...me looking at his food..I said we are past being shy..,trust me. Mr Y was sha eating...I was already getting irritated cos he kept making sounds with his mouth and also talking with his mouth full.

He finally finished eating and had the rest packed up for him...the bill now came...me I was already planning to go dutch....spilt the bill with him...the bill was 8k...so I brought out 3k...Mr Y was like dnt insult me now...am the one tht wanted to take you out..dnt form miss independent here..so I smiled and kept my money..only for Mr Y to get a constipated look on his face and frantically started searching for something...I was like wtsup...he was like we might hv to run from this restaurant..l was like Huh..I even thought he was joking at first....wt does tht mean...he said I didn't bring my wallet...I forgot it and at tht time..I think the waiters already guessed wt happened..they were already looking at us suspiciously. I cud nt even believe wt I was hearing...I just stood up and went to the counter and asked if I cud pay with my ATM...thankfully I could...I did and I just walked out of the restaurant without looking back. Immediately I got into my car...I cud not stop laughing cos it just seemed like a Nollywood movie....I just had to call and tell my friend....funniest thing Eva

So can you guys see wat am saying abt boys...Mr Y has been calling non-stop...cnt be bothered to pick...it's nt even abt the money...it's the fact tht he insulted me by suggesting we run from the restaurant....looool and tht he thot I wud actually comply....oshi...Also can you guys remember Mr B...who would leave his own car to drive mine and wud start driving with so much force and speed...also put the AC on the highest and be acting like someone tht has Neva been inside AC before...

So boys should stop complaining cos they have taken ova from girls....so what do you guys think?

Hv a grt week guys...a new post will be up soon