Hello everyone and Happy Easter!!!
So I got this from a male reader and he said he wants to show us that girls can be jerks too....so here is his story..its pretty long so I decided to break it into two parts...Enjoy
THE BEGINNING
It
all started in University of Lagos, guest house the Department of
Architecture had their barbecue night close to the swimming pool I was
reluctant to go but I was bored and my friends were persuasive, so I
decided to go, this was in 300Level first semester. when I got to the
place I started looking around to pass time since I didn’t drink and the
chicken/suya wasn’t ready. My eyes stumbled on the most beautiful face
ever I never knew that meeting was one I was going to regret later in
the future. She was beautiful, had an innocent face, had a blue contact
on and had my heart skip, but the sad part was she was with some other
guy, now am the kind of person that doesn’t go after someone’s girl but
she was different and I at least wanted to know if they were going out
for real or they were just great, I was seriously hoping it was the
later. So when the guy stepped aside to probably go get something I
made my move, which was propelled by my friend who told me to make the
move that what would I lose, the highest I would get is a NO. So with my
heart skipping I approached the goal.
Finally I was in front of her and I said hello faintly, she sized
me up, looked me up to down and said the coldest HI, I had heard in a
while..lol.. so I told her I loved her contacts it rhymed with her face
and to be honest with her, she had the most beautiful face I had ever
seen and this was not a line I picked up just to use to get to her, she
smiled and from there we started discussing on different topics from
likes, to school, to hobbies and finally I asked the question on my mind
all the time. ‘Is the guy with you, your boyfriend’, she laughed and
answered he was only a friend that wanted something more but she cant go
out with him, just passing the evening with him cause she was bored, I
should have seen the signs then, but I was too blind to see. So we
talked till the supposed friend came back.. seeing his angry face with
chicken laps in his hand and a drink, which I obviously knew was for the
girl, I told Tolu (that’s the name of the girl) I had to take my leave
but she objected sighting the fact she was enjoying my company but I
wasn’t ready to ruin any guys day or night I rejected and left.
After such a night I felt so good Infact I felt great but the problem
was I never got a number cause the guy didn’t allow me flow to the
end..lol.. and I was too intoxicated by the tingling of my stomach, that
it didn’t come to mind to ask. So my job the next day was to find her
in my faculty cause she was in Zoology and I was in Genetics, but a
search I thought would last highest a week, continued for a whole
semester to no avail but I couldn’t get her off my mind, so the
following semester I went to do my IT in General Hospital, tried going
on dates with other girls but they didn’t just click for me.
Then one
night at the office, I was chatting with a friend on Facebook I had not
talked to for a while, she was in Babcock. we went on and on and started
my flirting skills on her at least maybe something would come out of
it, besides the medical students at the teaching Hospital were either
not fine, not ready for a serious relationship or engaged so it was no
use. As the discussion continued with the damsel, one thing led to
another and we talked about my school, she now told me she has a friend
there in Zoology, this statement caught my curiosity and TOLU came to
mind, so I asked what is the name of this friend of yours, I was really
hoping it would be the same person, and then she replied Tolu, okay I
was so shocked but then it dawned on me it could be another Tolu, but my
problem was I didn’t know the surname of the mysterious girl, and didn’t
know if it was the same person, so my BU friend told me the surname of
her Tolu friend and I told her, rather begged her to give me the number
of her friend but it didn’t go down well with Sola my BU friend cause
she was already liking the attention I was giving her. It took me 3days
to get that number.
After getting the number I called the next day,
obviously she didn’t remember me again cause it was over a semester and
few weeks since we last saw. So I narrated the story of how we met, and
everything but my initial magic when we met didn’t work through the
phone cause she was cold through out the conversation. After 3months of
trying to be her friend cause am not a guy that gives
up easily she
finally started warming up to me. So we set on a day to meet and talk. That day finally came , I went to the popular Huskis at New Hall to
meet her, as usual for most ladies she came late, 15minutes I wasn’t too
upset cause am sure she was thinking about loads of things and maybe
she was having second thoughts. When she eventually met, we ordered for
drinks which I paid for.lol. and then we started talking and in next to
no time my charm got to her and she was giggling, laughing and
blushing but I never made my intention known at all cause I wanted to be
sure I liked her for real not just some infatuation and she felt the
same way too. But in the midst of the fun and all her friend came, and
told me straight to my face, her boyfriend was waiting for her, I was
dumbfounded but this was another sign that I should have paid more
attention to, I was so shocked, but Tolu begged me and told me her
friend was just looking for a way to get her away from me, that they had
both planned a rescue plot in case I wasn’t fun to be with and all. I
laughed though it wasn’t funny and the friend was insisting tolu
followed her, instead of dragging the case I told tolu to follow her
friend that we would see another time.
So after the episode I called
some of my girlfriends in Law to help me search the background of tolu
and everything I needed to know, I called them ‘THE ALL-KNOW GIRLS’
cause they could know everything about a girl
in a week. After a week they told me not to go ahead cause they didn’t
just like the aura she was releasing though she was not the wild kind
of girl but they said her way wasn’t straight, I took this but instead
of listening to my trusted friends which was my third sign, I decided to
go with my heart. So I started going to school from work and after a
month I asked her to date me, I wanted to go out with her, I wanted a
relationship. she said she wanted to think about it, that she’s not in a
rush to go into a relationship, she wants to be single for a while.. I
played the song “Long distance by Brandy” It became our song…. I gave
her a week to make a decision cause I knew she already knew the answer
from the moment I asked. So after a week, she said yes and I was the
happiest man on earth. Little did I know the story was just beginning…..
