Jerk 2: Mr D

Hello everyone, thanks so much for the comments, was really excited toread your views on if Mr L deserved to be called a jerk, I hope you guys keep enjoying the blog. So today is Jerk 2's story, which still makes me laugh when I think about it.

So after the heartbreak by Mr L, I swore off boys and I decided to keep to myself, only for me to be on twitter one sunny day and a guy ask for a follow back, so I followed back and I got a dm instantly from the guy, and the way the guy was so excited in the dm, I knew it had to be someone I knew and then the guy says his full name and it turns out to be my church crush... Mr D, okay I have to backtrack so you guys can understand the story well.

The church I used to attend when I was in Nigeria didn't really have eligible/hot guys, I know it's suppose to be a church and am suppose to look only unto Jesus but it also helps to have eye candies, and there was a shortage of that in my wonderful church but there was this guy called Mr D, who was definitely an eye candy and I fell in lust with him, but because I never saw him outside church, I started calling him my church crush, so I hope everyone understands the origin of the name...back to my story.

Meeting Mr D on twitter after so many years of stolen glances and coy smiles and pretending not to notice when he looked at me, I was excited but wary because of my recent situation with Mr L, but Mr D didn't waste anytime, first thing he would say after telling me his name was I can't believe am finally talking to you, have been thinking about about this day all my life, he was sha giving me lyrics and my heart skipped a bit and I was like I think I have found the one, at least he would take my mind off Mr L.

Mr D ticked all the right boxes, he was dark and tall, he already had a masters degree and was planning to even go further with his academics....I was in love, he was also sarcastic, funny and he said all the right things, I told myself, I have found my last bus stop....little did I know I have not found any bus stop and my bus was still going to keep moving

Mr D was the best thing for a week and I was so happy, my sisters thought I was crazy, because I was so nice to them and I had a smile on my face all week.  I became a new person and I was glowing...then the glow started to dim. Mr D stopped calling, after a week of calling me morning and evening, didn't reply my bbm messages. Even though we both lived in the same city and we both had a car, so transportation was not a problem, Mr D refused to see me and stood me up countless of times without even calling to apologize.

I finally got Mr D to pick up his phone and reply his messages, so I could ask what went wrong after a week of turning my head and heart upside.....what would my dear Mr D say ' Jumoke, am sorry but am not ready to step into a relationship or even think about it because I have to study you first and be sure I can trust you, but don't get me wrong, I like you but I have to think about it'.....I hope you guys are as shocked as I was because it felt like I was begging to date him, how would I date a boy I just started talking to in a week.....it was the funniest moment of my life.

Mr D is still single, he still tries to get into my head and my heart but I ain't interested mehn and I don't even have time for things like that.

So what do you think abt Mr D, is it right for me to describe him as a jerk?.....