So I don't know if its me that has issues but I want to talk to you guys about smethin....Mr S and I are doing pretty well as I said in my last post but I think we are getting too comfortable with each other...like am more comfortable with my morning breath ard him, he has seen me without makeup and have seen some his annoying habits like the way he chews gum...annoying sounds...i just want to slap the gum out of his mouth but i still like him.
Its not like being comfortable is a bad thing but you know when couples get into this rhythm and then start taking each other for granted....like you guys get too comfortable and then the efforts stop. So something happened recently that I have not been able to get off my mind....Mr S talks to me like am one of the guys...like am his G..loool
That's how two nights ago I called him and he just finished watching football...maybe he was on a football high...I don't knw sef bt his friends were saying something and that's hw Mr S just said I go buzz u later...hian...he said that's not what he said but that's what I heard sha....and that's not the end oo
When he called me last night, as we were ending our convo, what wud Mr S say, I just wanted to hail you...emi niyen oo...he wanted to hail me. I just think a boy speaking pidgin to a girl is just treating the girl as one of ur bros...so boys that's a little hint for zoning...if you want to zone a girl, start speaking pidgin to her.
Lastly, wen I saw him, he burped in my face while eating...kk don't let me exaggerate...he didn't burp in my face but he burped sha and it was not a graceful one....why would he burp...I knw I sound crazy but we are not at level of comfort yet...I don't fart when am wit him, at least if he had to burp, he shd hv done it gracefully. I cn only deal with one annoying habit at a time and I already hv tht with the chewing of gum but the ungraceful burping is a tad too far.
Am sure some people are going to think am crazy but am I really?, don't you think sometimes couples get too comfortable with each other and then efforts at making each other happy and keeping the romance alive dies.....nd then the relationship just starts goin downhill
Dnt worri am nt going to leave Mr S because of his ungraceful burping and his gum chewing habits but I hv told him if he talks to me in pidgin again, he is on his own
So what do you guys think....am I crazy or is there a the comfort level that can become annoying?