No Good Girls

Hey guys...hp you are all gud and hvin a great weekend..

So since I hv bin in Bham, every boy I meet keep saying the same thing, 'there are no good girls' and I find it funny and annoying because when boys meet good girls, they don't know what to do with them.Mr S was one of those boys that used to say that and he but I hp with me by his side, he has found a good girl and he knows it. *big smile*

Everywhere I go, I meet boys that say all I want is a good girl to settle down with but then I gt to know them better and none of them are ready.....they still want to flex and cheat...which girl would take that one. I used to think boys that school or live abroad are more sensible with their thinking, but I have to come realize, they are even worse than their counterparts in Naija...at least those ones are straight shooters.

The question I ask all these boys is that who is a good girl..wt makes one girl good and the other bad...and they all end up saying the same thing...a good girl is a girl that doesn't want money and doesn't  cheat but its so funny, that these same boys have good girls right under their nose and still didn't know what to do with them. Half of the supposed 'bad' girls...most of them became 'bad' because of boys...hw cn a girl be faithful to you in a relationship and then you screw her over by cheating on her and you expect the girl not to become 'bad' or damaged.

And I think most boys already stereotype a girl as good or bad...if a girl has a long weave, wears a short dress and speaks her mind, like she knows what she wants and says it...then she's probabli a bad girl but a good girl is one who is quiet, doesn't have extensions on and doesn't cause drama...yimu. Right now girls are not smiling, everyone knws wt they want...nd if a girl says it like it is...that doesn't make her a bad girl or a bitch...at least u knw wt u are getting with her.

So boys there are good girls everywhere...look and you shall find....nd when you find her..treat her with respect #shikena

Weekend of Life

Hey blogfam...hp you guys are gud. Something really funny happened to me over the weekend.

OKay so since I met Mr S, I don't really go out with other boys but last weekend Mr S was nt in town and a male classmate of mine invited me out, kk...so am nt really a fan of this boy, first of all he is shorter than me and then secondly he is brash and very Yoruba ish bt I was so bored, so I was like I would just go nd then in the club the music would be so loud, I won't hv to talk to him.

Then the day came, I dressed up, was lookin very hot, ws in my heels...trying not to fall and break my legs so wen I got into the cab, I was like where are we going...me I was thinking a British club with all the club bangers , I was already planning my dance moves in my head to Get Lucky by Daft Punk and Pharrell. Then the guy just said we are going to African Village...I was like say what...he said don't worry you would have fun...it's a cool Nigerian club...so I thot to myself it won't be bad to dance to wizkid and them ppl...so I started planning my azonto skills.

That's hw we just got to one dodgy looking place...At first I even thot maybe the cab driver was waiting for the light...no oo..we were at the club, the first thing I noticed was tht I was overdressed, everyone was wearing jeans and flats...so wen I entered the supposed club, everyone just turned nd was staring at me. Secondly, it looked like all those clubs that Old Igbo men go to, like the ones you see in Nollywood but I was like I won't judge by the look...am sure it would be fun. Then there was no space in the main club, so we had to go to the back of the cub where they put one tent like tht....am serious it was a tent and then last but not the least, they had cats everywhere..yh...mean looking cats that were just climbing my body. 

Then the tent they put us in...we were the only ones there...yh with the cats...the boy was like is this not cool...I was just staring at him...it's like I shd start cryin...Shebi I cud hv sat down in my house jejeley and watched Love and Hiphop....then the boy got me food but I cud nt eat cos the cats wud climb ur leg so they cn get to the food....at 1am, when some dodgy looking old men started cmin into the tent and I was the only babe, I decided to pack my belongings and vamoose...the boy was like how cme you are leaving so early...I was like I feel sleepy...

The nxt day he pinged me, he was like it was a crazy and fun night yh, so turnt up....turnt up ke..didn't even wat to say, I just sent tht creepy smile smiley cos I dnt think we went to the same place... I cud not even tell Mr S the horrible experience cos I already hyped the club ish b4 I went....when he asked me I said it was a crazy nite...tht I didn't get home till like 4am...when he asked me wat club I went to, I mentioned one cool club I saw by the roadside...loool....if only he knew

Anyways that's hw my weekend went oo...I just had to give u guys the gist. Hv a blessed week blogfam...

Why can't we all just get along

Hey guys....yh am bk to updating regularly...am on brk, so I hv no excuse. So I knw this blog is about my life as a single girl yh but am gonna divert a bit..so bear with me.

I have had a question on my mind all week and I cnt just seem to find an answer, so blogfam maybe you can help...and this question of life is Why can't we girls just get along and support each other?...I knw its really a question of life. Like I go on blogs, twitter and all you see is girls bashing each other, it's celebs tht even get the brunt of the bashing and I just think to myself, that you would think with guys always bringing us down already..we would feel the need to get together and support each other.

Like you read a story about like a female celeb or just a normal girl...the most insults come from girls...it may not even be a horrible story..it cud even be like a story about how the babe is doing well with her hustle....the next comment wud be so bitchy and insulting..why can't you just be happy for the babe.

Recently I was talkin to a female friend of mine, just gisting normally and then she's like have you seen this person and I was like, what happened to her..she was like she's bleaching and am sure she's a parol babe na....I cud nt even believe...thank God I knw the babe she was talkin abt...her pic was lighter than usual cos she filtered it on Instagram....jst see life.

U keep hearing its a man's world and then you see so called feminists arguing...the truth is tht it would remain a man's world until we girls stop bitching about each and work together bt I guess that mite never happen....so lets get used to living in a man's world then.

 

I hate long distance.....

Hey guys...I just watched 2face's rainbow video and its so nice....so sweet. Am sure Annie Idiba is the happiest girl on earth....I don't think I want a footballer husband again....I now want a musician husband cos I wud like to have a song and music video dedicated to me...lool. Enough with the daydreaming...time to get to business.

So now that am on break, I have enough time for my favourite hobby....thinking yo..and i am dreading this summer break because Mr S is planning on going back to Naija for the summer holiday and wont be back till September *crying* and me am stuck in Birmingham. The thing is even though we are not dating officially but we know we like each and we also spend so much time together that I cant even imagine him not here. God knows I hate long distance relationships...cnt deal, I like to be able to see the person I like anytime I want....and it's nt like we are dating ooo. 

My hatred and contempt for long distance relationship is a major reason why am still single, I dont want to be in the Uk and my bf in Naija...it's just not for me and I know it's nt like Mr S and I would be apart for long ooo...just 3 months but it still seems like forever. Couples that are in long distance relationships I believe are the strongest people ever...

Am also anxious...cos Iong distance relationships are the true test of commitment and trust in a relationship. I think the long distance ish plays on ur emotions and starts to make you wonder about the little things like he didn't call or not pick up when you call. Also it makes you learn not to be so dependent on your partner,  It's great to depend on ur partner and also want to be with them, but its great to retain one's personality and also be able to have fun without them.

But trust me, it's easier said than done...so now I have to find new hobbies...and you guys would have to keep me busy and help me through this long journey...*sobbing*

Anyways I just want to enjoy my last days with Mr S and we ordered a cake together...red velvet yo. And I just love how Mr S keeps referring to us in future terms...at least I know he expects us to be together for awhile. Hopefully, we can survive this long summer break.

So way do you guys think of long distance relationships...cn you have one?

The Little Things

Hey guys....am so sorry that I have not uploaded in such a long time...hv just not bin inspired lately cos hv not bin going out...hv just bin sleeping cos school is finally on break. Anyways I have something I want to share with you guys.

I was listening to Little Things by One Direction...lv that song and I started thinking about how its also the little things that get me irritated and also turn me off boys. I don't know if its because am getting older, so am more picky but even me myself think am crazy when I think of the things that irritate me.

One of my major pet peeve tho is boys that can't speak English...oh lord...I cnt stand it. If am talking to you and you gbagaun more than once...esp those obvious gbagauns that you know someone that speaks well won't make....I dnt care if u are the finest boy Eva, we are so done

Another thing that people might not notice but irritates the hell out of me, now this one might sound crazy but its people that don't know how to use phone smileys and phone language, I just met a guy recently and he can use all the smileys on earth, even when they don't make sense, then also he doesn't know how to use words like loool or brb....u knw those phone ish. He would write brb wen he is not going anywhere..like who does that.

Then another one is not putting things back where they belong, Mr S drives me crazy with this habit, he would take something from somewhere and then he doesn't put it back, this might seem insignificant but for someone like me that has a little bit of OCD, I get crazy when things are not in place....ppl shd learn to put things back where they found them...it makes it easier to find them when you need it. 

Also maybe this is not so little, but I hate arrogant boys...yh that's probably every girl's pet peeve, okay you know there's a very thin line btw confidence and arrogance, every girl loves a confident boy, u know the swag, the way he carries himself and his personality but you know some boys tend to over-step that line. I can't stand boys that think they are confident, but in reality they are just arrogant and you know the funniest thing is that it's boys tht have nothing that tend to be arrogant, they are the ones still living in their father's house and driving their father's car...so why are u arrogant and then it's also always the ugly ones.

Am sure some people would be like if u love someone, you should be able to accept their faults, yh most def but I don't think I can love someone that can't speak English or spell correctly...cnt do it mehn...my love is not that blind ,it just wears rose-colored glasses,  so that i can at least accept Mr S' chewing gum habits, I tune the sound out and just smile at him. As I have gotten older, some of my views have changed, I can actually date a boy that snores but not one that snores like a tractor ooo...am talkin about the cute, light snores.

Anyways, some people think am just picky nd crazy, what do you guys think...is it not those little things that irritate you about boys.