Why do boys always lead girls on when they know they are not going to date them....I always get really upset when I think about it because it something that has happened to me a lot and I think so many girls.
I was talking to a friend recently and she was really heartbroken, she met a guy, really liked him and stuff...the boy liked her too...blah blah....and he would call her everyday, send her romantic msgs...the whole nine yards and this went on for like four months...kk let's date, he doesn't want to, before you knw it...my dear friend is now in the friend zone...imagine
I think that's the most annoying thing abt this issue because after they have led you on, they would na put you in friend zone or worse sef....family zone, start calling you 'sis' as if you asked for a brother and obviously if you bring up the issue of dating...they would start saying 'sis you knw that......'
Another irritating dimension is that the boy would na not let the girl go...after he puts her in friend zone, he won't let go, he would hold on like she's his property..but to do the right thing then...neva. Let the girl go and find the happiness she deserves, if she cuts you out of her life..she's not being childish....that's just her own way of dealing with her emotions
Words of advice guys, if you know you don't want to date a girl, don't lead her on, at least tell her what you want from the beginning and if she still wants to go along for the ride, then great. Also don't call a girl that you know likes you but you don't, darlin or ur future wifey, that's just putting ideas in her head...let her be. And if a girl decides to leave because you dnt have your shit together, don't be angry.....you too move on and leave her alone.
So I hope guys read this and they stop leading girls on, its not nice to be led on when the girl is anticipating something serious..it probably wont stop but at least I hv said my piece... thank you very much for reading.
LMAOO!!! "Sis you know that..." Lol, that's funny. IKR! Terrible stuff. That letting go part ANNOYS me too, like why won't you just end it, rara o they'll still call and tease and what not. Anyway, thank you for this post! I was nodding all through. I guess they just like being in control...or...I really don't know. Hopefully, you meet one of the people that's right for you soon enough. :)
ReplyDeleteDnt mind dem, annoyin species of humans!! Dey'll take u high, den suddenly let u crash to piecies like an aircraft!!!
ReplyDeleteAm a guy so let me be objective in this matter, firstly, yeap most guys lead on its part of our animalistic tendency to always try to woo and win over a female even if we have no intention of going out with them it does our EGO a lot of good...but it doesnt make it right, dis is were discipline comes in and not everyone has dat, over to the ladies please don't fall for a guy if u don't know what his intentions are, if he doesnt tell you or if he doesnt sound sincere.. and if he is not coming out straight with it boldly ask him or leave....shikena.... T21
ReplyDeleteIt is nt jst guys bbz. 2 b fair 2 dem, girls lead guys on 2 n even in friendship, sm ffrnds do.
ReplyDeleteStumbled across this on Facebook and figured I may have some valuable input. I was listening to Love Line with Dr. Drew and they discussed this on the air a few months back. Men fall for women quickly, women fall for men slowly. If he was hitting on her, he probably did want to date her, but after four months of wooing with no results, a man loses interest. I've been there myself, hitting on a girl who seemed disinterested so after a time I started dating someone else. She got very upset with me and still refuses to talk to me, years later.
ReplyDeleteThat's a fact.there is no point starting wat u can't finish.save a heart...don't "lead on"
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I am a fan of this blog buh I don't comment buh I av to comment now.....criusly dis leading on ish culd be so annoying. Especially in a case where d guy has a gf and he keeps leading anoda girl on.....lyk criusly wht was he thinking* den d gurl wuld nw suffer an heartbreak from someone who was nvr hers to start wiv......mshew. All dis boys can like to behave and let d sleeping dog lie.
ReplyDeleteI really take a strong objection to this article that guyz lead on. The culprit are the gals, the victims are the guyz... The gals would collect your gift play I like, enjoy your pampering then when you ask them out, they tell you friends story that they have got no emotional attachment for you.
ReplyDeleteWell, at times also the gal could be the architect of her woes also. You meet a guy he likes you then you begin to play hard to get.. Haba, man no like all this wait, run, move slow down things.. You either dig him or he frees.. Lot of babes dig him n he wud prefer trying them out. Ladies please stop those ideas we see in movies..
Lol dis is hilarious. I blive guys lead girls on cos we love the chase....we don't wnt the kill, jus wanna enjoy hunting. Its a sport.
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