Hey everyone...hope you guys had a great weekend, so as you guys should know by now...am always thinking, yh I have so much spare time....so as usual I was thinking about something last night.
As you all know, having been going on different dates and just dating and I met a guy recently, lets call him Mr S, he's really cool, very funny honest and really cute *blushing*....yh like finally shey but!!!!. there's a big BUT.
Why is that guys of nowadays have to be hit on the head, slapped on the face and poked before they budge nd take the initiative to do something.....guys would like a girl but to even 'court' is like wahala for them. Mr S is really cool and I know he likes me but to ping or call is trouble. It's becomes even more annoying when I have missed him so much and I can't take it anymore, I ping him and then he takes ages to reply, I know he doesn't do it to only me, cos all his friends complain about it too.
Apart from that, you have to push him to say I miss you or something nice, when my friend was going to introduce me to the guy, she said he was a romantic and he is practically the best thing since sliced bread....he can actually be but he doesn't act like it.
When I could not take it anymore, I decided to ask him about his nonchalant attitude towards dating and he told me about a past relationship that broke his heart and my heart just sunk, cos I realized what I just got myself into....another relationship where I have to prove to the boy I don't even know what, and I would have to poke, pamper....aint got no time for that yo
I kept thinking to myself it's better I stop now, at least we are not in a relationship yet...we are still figuring stuff out, cos am too old to get into another relationship where i have to keep pushing, poking the boy until he decides to start doing stuff, and I also don't have the energy because I know the nonchalance is only going to abate when he meets the right person and am I that right person?....am not so sure with the way things are going.
I keep asking myself should I stay or go?....I want to stay because he is the first person I have really liked in a long time and I know he likes me but I also think about leaving because when I promised myself, my next relationship would be all about me, the boy doing all the running, chasing and pampering. Bt the ish is that we are not even near the relationship stage at all....so maybe all I need is to give Mr S time because all I have heard about him are good things and he makes me happy.
Sorry about all the mushy, mushy stuff....so not me bt it's bin awhile I have met a guy that makes me smile. I was actually not going to write about it...wanted to keep it a secret for as long as I could but this issue was killing me...so I decided to blog abt it....gosh I talk too much *smh*. Bye
Hahahaha. Talkative oshi :p
ReplyDeleteAbt staying or goin, I knw guyz dat u v to do d whole pokin shii 4.. Wen dey dnt tell u hw dey feel, u get pissed bt wen dey do, u start to blush lik a schl girl *lol*
Bt seriously, no time 4 all dat jare, if ur 'd one' u won't v to push him b4 he sayz anytin, itz better to leave nw b4 u get hurt, atleast its still in d early stages..
Lmaoo.yh I guess its beta 2 leave nw,b4 it gets deep..
ReplyDeleteI don't think u should leave.give him more tym since u sed its bin a while snc u met a guy dat made u smile nd dat u rily lik so as 2 prevent regrets.
ReplyDeleteTake it izi with him, jumy!!! If he's meant for u, he wld stay, so take ur time,I dnt advice u to leave though!!!
ReplyDeleteNah I don't think u shld leave just yet..u just met him so give him more time!!! Duntz xx
ReplyDeleteTo be honest with you, its evident you have fallen for the guy sef, and i would advice you try to control your emotions cause the guy hasnt proclaimed his intention so u can never pre-judge for him.... i once had a friend, we are best friends now, i liked her so much but never had intentions of going out with her but she took it the wrong way but i had to talk to her for her to even accept anoda guy into her life.. now we are both happy with our relationships and still best of friends.. First know his intentions let him spill it out or move on.. T21
ReplyDeleteBe sure of his intentions first.dat would determine if u would give him sometime to do things right...but remember,time waits for no1.
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Err the questions u shud b askin ursef is not shud I stay or go...derz no basis for that. He hasn't said anything yet nd dt z as gud as nothing. My advice to you is that u eida use ur female wiles to seduce/coax him or jus go with the flow. For all u knw, t myt jus b a crush.
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