
Like we all know the number one rule is don't kiss on the first date, so when do you kiss the boy if you keep going on dates with the same boy and you know you like him....is the second, third or fourth. But have spoken to guys who said if they were really attracted to a girl and if she kissed them on the first night, they wont mind........
Another one is how many dates do you have to go on with a boy before it becomes appropriate to cook for the boy, obviously I don't think you can cook on the first date....hmmm am nt even sure sef....because in the Nigerian culture, cooking for a boy is a big deal....so maybe the first date might not be so appropriate....but who cares sef...if you feel like cooking for him on the first date..go ahead, if you like sef...you can tell him to bring his laundry and you would do it for him...it's your dating life.
Then one of the most important one is how many dates should you have gone on before you fart in front of the boy, am really serious abt this one...having been thinking abt it, like how long should I have known the boy for before I fart in front of him....I don't knw if I would ever fart in front of a boy I like....am too shy for all that one. I think it's best to wait till the guy becomes a boyfriend...then he can't really run away, at least he won't leave you cos you farted but then you never know...the smell would probably determine that.
Also when do you meet his friends? , how long would it take you to introduce your friends to a boy you like but you are not in a relationship with....how long does it take for a boy to introduce a girl he's just dating but not in a relationship with to his friends
I dnt knw, I just feel like there are so many rules and they just restrict people from being themselves and pursuing what they want, like the rule that says don't ping, text or call a boy u like first, they should call you first....I think if you follow that rule...you would grow bei bei waiting by the phone...cos I think boys of nowadays have to be hit on the head before they act and its not because they don't like the girl, they just don't think. If you want something, pursue it....run after it and hunt it down yo.
Like I have a friend who broke all the rules, she liked a boy and the boy liked her too but as usual, the boy refused to take the first step, the girl didn't let that deter her...she decided to pursue the boy, she didn't ask the boy out but she called, checked on the boy, cooked for him, made herself am important presence in the boy's life and voila...she is in a very happy relationship with the boy.
Rules are meant to broken and especially now that boys are blind to coy ish and are not really into the game again.....you have to grab what you want....run after it and get your happiness and joy. I believe these rules just stop people from getting what they want, like these rules probably worked in the former decades but not anymore.
So why don't you call, ping or text that boy, even if you are the first one to, invite him to your house even if its the third date....kiss him on the second date....if you want sef first date bt if you don't hear from him again...oh well...
All am just saying is that i have learnt in this journey of dating is that dont let the rules stop you from achieving your goal or getting what you want.
Lmao.. U dis girl ehn..
ReplyDeleteBt yh I actually reason wit d points u made.. Once u want smtin, pursue it coz sm stupid rules won't be dere wen ur all alone later on..
º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º..dis stuff is hilarious lmaoo.I do fink ur rite 2 an xtent dough.cool story
ReplyDeleteNice...makn sense.
ReplyDeletelol.... funny you, my number one dating rule is to be myself and i throw lil test on the person am dating to see if they are cool.. but to be honest i never go on a date with a complete stranger i make her my friend do all the talk on fone and get comfortable with her before we go watch a movie.... T21
ReplyDeleteLolzzz...jumoke oooo!!!
ReplyDeleteDis post is cool though.I say "Break the rules!...Do watever makes u happy!"
Wat works for me might nt work for u.
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