So I was doing some thinking yesterday night...that's all I do and I kept asking myself one question I have not been able to answer in this perilous journey of dating
The question is why are bad boys more fun? Like its definitely the question of life.....I have been single for a while now but over the years I have been involved with some bad boys. When I say bad boys...I don't means boys that smoke, drink and all of those other vices but boys that you know are not good for your heart or your health.
Bad boys are the ones giving you high blood pressures, near heart attacks, and you just want to kill them but you can't...they keep messing up but you stick with them because most times they have a good heart but they keep making wrong decisions.
The thing about is that they are so much fun....even if they are breaking your heart and you want to leave....they just reel you back in. Like a friend of mine is in that kind of relationship, the guy has cheated on her countless times but every time she tries to get away, he draws her back with presents, lyrics of life...he has even gone as far as planning a surprise party to say sorry..and she goes back to him. And when she comes to me crying about the guy, I ask her why she won't leave him but according to her he does the sweetest things and buys her the perfect gifts
I can't really judge because I have also had a bad boy in my life...that one guy that you know you should leave but you can't because most times they are the ones that get you even though they keep messing up. I think bad boys can be so sweet and do the nicest things especially when they mess up, but I think it gets to a time when you start to realize that at some point fun is not everything and that some stability is needed....in walks the 'good guys'.
The good guy might not be fun but at least they provide you with some stability and am going to contradict myself here by saying that sometimes all you want is the fun the bad boy brings. Also sticking with a bad boy might turn out well...look at Anne Idiba...she stuck with the bad boy and won....am sure she wakes up every morning screaming I won...cos if it was me, thats what I would be doing.
So I still can't figure out why bad boys are always fun even though they keep breaking hearts....so why do you guys think bad boys are always more fun?
Most of the time,the bad boys find a way to get thru u and be part of u,dey knws d rules and d codes,most time u have a connection with them which make it very difficult for u to let go,only God can help u to make d decision of letting go.beebee
ReplyDeleteJummy!!! Me gan, av askd myself dis question, serzly may God help us!! N d annoyin thing is dey go for the gud girls accordin to d law of attraction, "opposite attracts"
ReplyDeleteBad boys know how to play their cards right.they get into ur head and never leave.they take note of the things that u crave in a man and dey do it for u.they r nt ready to settle down in a serious rel wit u and they don't wanna lose u (eat their cake and have it).it takes a lot to break free from a bad boy.
ReplyDeleteThe funny part is u know deep within u that he is no good for u,yet u hope for a change in him.is dat wat ur mum trained u for...*eyes rolling.
In my opinion...once u r 22 and above,u meet a bad boy...flee
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