Hey blogfam...hp you are having a grt week. It's Wednesday...so time for a new post
So we all know the different dating zones...the family zone...thts the brother/sister zone..which is the saddest zone cos there's no getting out of it...at least u cnt date your brother or the one tht the boy u have a crush refers to you as big mama or mummy..loool...u cnt go and date your son..wait I think it's only fat ppl tht enters tht zone...lool
Then the most common zone which is the friend zone...I think ppl scream too much abt this zone..like be calm...you can still get out of this zone..trust me guys...just because a girl thinks of you or calls you a friend doesn't mean she cnt date you, at least she didn't call you her brother. In this friend zone too..there's a new sub zone...the 'I really like you but I don't want to destroy our friendship' zone....yimu
Now getting to the point of this post...there's a new zone in the dating world...thinking abt it nw..it's nt really new...anyways it's a zone I just found myself in...poor Jumoke. The name of the zone is pretty long but stay with me...drumroll ppl....the 'If I didn't have a girlfriend, I would have dated you 'zone...yup thts my current zone..well I dnt plan to stay there for long... emi ti mo ti step out mehn... Like I dnt knw why boys do or say this...like why are you telling me...okay we like each but you have a girlfriend and a perfect relationship....then let's keep it moving...but no they won't let you go and find your destiny...na wa ooo.
Actually I hv been in this I like you but I have a girlfriend zone twice...first time I really didn't mind cos the boy kept coming up with stories of how horrible his gf was, so I kept thinking he wud break up with her and be with me...but I cme to my senses sharply, when the gf attacked me and the bf supported her..well wt did I expect. So now I think any girl tht finds herself in this zone and still sits there...then enjoy being a side chic for the rest of your life...cos the nigga ain't leaving his gf anytime soon...so start stepping and look for your boo somewhere else.
If you know you can't or won't date someone...then why tell them anything...if u knw u cherish your friendship...then why are u telling the girl u like her..wen u knw u won't end up dating her or since you knw you have a gf...why are u bothering the girl....let her be...
Well thts all I hv for this post...enjoy the rest of your week....
i know a lil abt friendzoning and trust me its not a sweet smfn. so i met a dude in church and he had ds chemistry. we became very close and he told me he liked me and i tld him hwI felt too. evrything about this dude was perfect. he is a church boy fair tall and very fineeeee. i was patiently waiting fr this dude to ask me out and all hw cud say was u mean alot to me and i dnt wanna end our friendship i rather we remain friends i dnt wanna hurt ur feelings. all i cud think in my head was nigga u re hurting me nw and all i had to say to him was i totally agree with u. i think we shud remain friends. so lets say we friendzoned each other bt really i wanted us to b in a relationship.....
ReplyDeleteWell, anonymous...u gonna meet other cool guys...#LiveOn
ReplyDelete*Chuckles*...Jummie»Royal Fountain...doubt u remember that...u quite right tho'...although it happens to guys too. Nice name for that 'zone' yo!lol...Living=Experiences.