Free Pass

 Hi guys....happy Wednesday ppl...time to get to business

Recently, I was having a chat with a very inspiring friend of mine and we were talking about cheating..I know I have spoken about it before on the blog..new readers can check that post out HERE but this post is in a new dimension...and we raised two questions which are why do boys get a free pass when it comes to cheating? Why do boys that cheat on their girlfriends consistently have a problem when she steps out too?. Well here are my thoughts on those questions.

Firstly, I think boys get free passes when it comes to cheating cos girls allow it, boys will keep cheating on a girl when he knows she is not going anywhere....before I used to think maybe it was the Nigerian culture but apparently it's everywhere....am not saying if your boyfriend cheats on you once and apologizes, that you should not forgive him, if you think you can work through it with him, then good luck to you guys... But if he consistently cheats on you and starts to flaunt it sef...no more under G stuff and you still stick with him, why won't the boy think he has a free pass. 

Secondly, I have no answer to the second question...I think it has something to do with their egos but what do I know.. maybe my male readers can help answer the question....like a close friend of mine was in a situation recently, her boyfriend kept cheating on her but she really liked the boy, so she didn't leave him but recently she became close to a co-worker and all they were doing was just talking, it was obvious the co-worker liked her but she still kept it platonic...then her boyfriend found out cos he goes thru her phone regularly...cn u imagine...then all hell broke loose...started screaming at the girl, called the co-worker and threatened him...the boyfriend almost had heart attack cos the girl was chatting to another boy, but he has like 5 side-chicks ooo...

When I was telling my male friend the story, his room mate said something that has made me lose hope in this male generation...he said men are not meant to be with just one person but girls are made for just one person...this is coming from a British trained Masters degree holder ooo...please help me find the sense in what he said. I was even thinking this was particular to the Nigerian society until the Fitz and Mellie situation in last week's scandal...let all my fellow scandal lovers say 'yeah'....see how Fitz that has been cheating on Mellie for at least four years went crazy cos she had a fling.....so I guess its not only Nigerian men that are wired like that.

So my male readers, why do men get upset when a girl cheats on you once...even though you have cheated on her countless times...we await your answers in the comment section.... And ladies if you also have an opinion on these questions..please feel free to chime in...

Thanks for reading...hp you have a grt day