Shallow

 Happy new month blog fam.. hp you are all having a great week...well me am just working on my project...cnt wait to be done.

I used to think I was the least shallow person on earth...like I know I can be a bit judgemental but shallow...nah...or at least thts what I thought until two weeks ago..

I went for a house party and I really dressed up...was not really interested in meeting guys...I just wanted to dance...am probabli the most uncoordinated person ever but I still like dancing with my two left feet..so the party started and there were some cool guys around...wen the dancing started...I decided to hang back and see if any boy would approach me..yh I knw I said I went there for the dancing and not the guys..tht doesn't mean I shd not position myself where the 'one' can easily find me. Few minutes later, a cute, tall boy came to meet me and was talking to me till his friend called to come and get him from downstairs...so he excused himself and said he would be back. So I quickly went to pour myself a drink and as I was about to return to my position...someone tapped me and said hi, as I turned..there was hmmm..how do I say this without sounding mean..hmm there was a rather large guy blocking my way...so I said hi back and said excuse me, but he didn't move and said I really like your dress...I said thanks and as he was about to continue, I spotted the tall, dark guy..he was back and he smiled at me...so I rudely said I had to go and brushed past the guy. 

Mr tall-dark and I started dancing, and he was all grabby and very touchy...so I tried to push him bk and then before I knew it..he dragged me closer and was getting really scary....before I could say stop...I felt the guy being lifted from me...who was my knight in shining amour...the rather large guy...he kept asking if I was okay and if I wanted him to beat the guy...so sweet...but I told him I was fine. After the whole ish, I didn't feel like dancing again...so Mr rather large guy and I just sat in a corner and started gisting...it was amazing to find out how much we had in common and how cool he was.

After the party, I started thinking about how I always had problems with boys tht didn't find me attractive cos of my weight or because I didn't hv a flat tummy....nd it dawned on me tht I am no different from them...if I call them shallow...then I am also as shallow as them....cos I ignored a really nice guy cos he was not skinny..like hw crazy is tht.

I understand everyone has specs but don't let the specs become a bondage and then make you miss out on an amazing individual....and I think people should realize that everybody is a bit shallow in one way or the other...am happy Mr rather large guy was still persistent even though I was rude cos he is one of the nicest people I have ever met.. and the funniest thing is that he was not even interested in me...he has a gf...he just came to meet me cos I looked lonely...imagine..lool and me I was forming brush off....

You don't have to be upset if you don't find someone attractive cos of their physical appearance...just dnt flip out when the same thing happens to you...think before you judge them as shallow.....

So thts my post for this week...hv a grt week guys and wishing u a blessed month...