Tuesday, 12 February 2013

Valentine's Day Is Coming



Hey guys thanks for coming back to read the blog and also commenting on the posts, really appreciate. God bless you. So Valentine's Day is around the corner, like three days from now and am so excited, you can't even imagine. I know it sounds weird that as a single girl am excited about valentine day but its a funny day and its all about sharing love. I have grand plans for my valentine's day but before I share that with you, let me tell you guys about my worst valentine's day ever.
    
In my second year in the university, a very good friend of mine introduced me to this really cool guy and I would just call him Mr B, he was really cool, fun, very nice and we had a great time and became really close. My university didn't encourage relationships, so Mr B and I were just having fun and getting to know each other, we really liked each but I didn't want a relationship because of my school's regulations, because I knew I won't enjoy it and Mr B didn't mind.
   
A week before Valentine's day, Mr B started asking me questions of life, like what's my favorite color, what have I been pining for all year, he was sha giving me hints and I was anticipating and so excited about Valentine's day. I kept imagining the different gifts and also practicing my surprise face.
   
Then Valentine's Day was here....was so excited I could not sleep the night before, Valentine's Day in my school is like one of the biggest and most important date in my school, because the size of your gift determined the level of the love your boyfriend had from you, even though I was not dating Mr B, but because of our closeness and our unofficial status, I expected something from him and me I had already gotten a hamper of gifts ready for him, then the wait of life started......
     
Morning went, afternoon then it was evening, no gift, no Mr B, I kept telling myself that he probably wants to be romantic and he was going to give me a couple of minutes before 12, then 12.01 came and I still told myself that maybe the person he left the gift with slept off....then it was 1am....obviously no gift was coming again, I could not even help the tears that rolled down my face.
   
The next day I went to my friend that introduced me to Mr B because I was sure she would know what happened and immediately I entered her room, she got uncomfortable and started apologizing, apparently Mr B gave someone a Val's gift, it was not just me....he gave a babe that was in his class.

When I saw Mr B, I asked him about it and why he led me on, he said he was not sure if I really liked him and  that our relationship was not going anywhere and he had found someone else.....


 Since that day, I vowed to not let any guy dictate how I feel or celebrate my valentine's day, so back to my valentine's day plan after this pathetic story of mine. Am planning to get a small chocolate cake, loads of chocolate and also every sweet thing I can lay my hands on....am suppose to be on a diet but am taking a day off. Also am finally getting a teddy bear...'dancing', I always wanted one and I thought maybe a guy would get it for me like they do in the movies but that was not happening for me, so am getting it myself...getting the biggest one I can find.
   
I just want to say to all the single girls like me, it doesn't have to be a dreadful day, trust me UK is the worst place to be because even on a normal day, all you see are couples involved in one form of PDA, so you can imagine Val's day but as a single girl, go out, have a singles party or mixer, just make sure you have a great day and don't let anything bring you down.
   
So was I wrong to anticipate a gift from Mr B even though we were not dating?......I would also like to hear about your worst valentine's day and your plans for this valentine.

   
    

5 comments:

  1. 1st of all, ​​=))º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º‎​=)) !!! Den u anticipatin,its awkward cuz He neida askd u out nor told u he liked u. He wantd u as a friend, cuz he already liked some1 already!!! Dose excuses he gave were just a bluff!!! Bt we learn frm xperirience. Av fun. My vals day wld b (iono!!!!) I pray God gives me a vals gift dat day!!!

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  2. Finally, am enjoying this blog; a cool way to relief after a hard day work. Were you wrong for expecting? I would say a no, coz we all do expect. However, as a guy, I would say you expected too much coz u put your all in it and really not your fault, the guy must be a sweet talker. Guys are the most predictable person you can handle once you know their password.

    This is my first valentine official visit things. I hope it turns out well though we aren't dating yet, I expect the best and of course am not expecting anything.

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  3. Expecting a gift on vals day is normal...u just shouldn't fix ur mind on a particular guy.trust me...I've never had any "giftful" valentine from a guy,just from my dad...
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    Deedee

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  4. Lol...Can't stop laughing...Well it happens..Eeyah I never knew you would have wanted a teddy maybe I could have thought of giving you that before you left Naija..All dsame have fun...Would do dat here myself...I'm a single guy but would sure atleast hang out wiv guys...Have fun and enjoy d day...Tobiloba.

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  5. Lmao.
    Loving this blog

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