Thursday, 28 March 2013

From A Guy's Point of View Part 2

So our relationship went off to a great start, we were an item, we were seen everywhere, went everywhere and we were the envy and admiration of all cause I was quite popular… the first three months were bliss, I met her parents and instantly her mum loved me, collected my number and was always calling me. Then the war started or should I say the turbulence. she started chatting with her Ex who was in Abuja I didn’t like it but I wanted to trust her wholeheartedly and give her, her space so I just warned it could backfire ooo.. 

At my back they were rekindling their love and he decided to come over for a week, unfortunately he had an accident, which made my girlfriend withdraw from me, all along I didn’t know this till I went to meet her and confronted her that our relationship was suffering. Then she opened up about the friend having an accident but didn’t tell me they had rekindled their relationship until I took her phone and saw their shared text messages… I was heartbroken, when I confronted her she shrugged it off till I pressed harder and she confessed I felt bad, this was another sign, SIGN 4, but I didn’t heed the warnings I forgave her, she forgot him, and we moved on . 
She started behaving nonchalantly about the relationships and I started seeing different text messages from different guys, when I couldn’t take it anymore I ended the relationship, that was going to be the first in a series of break ups and make ups.. She called me back after a week and we made up but she got from bad to worse, she started going on wild cruise, with different guys but I couldn’t do a thing because I loved her, loved her family and couldn’t just see her leave cause she meant everything to me. The next thing that started was she would tell me she wants to read when I call her and tell me to take a stroll with her friends and then go out with some other guy, it was terrible when my friends started seeing her in different guys cars when I had informed them I was going to see her or when am with her friends one day I caught her red handed and we broke up again. We made up after 3weeks. 
Then this time she was seeing an actor behind my back bearing my name it was bad when I found out, very bad. my friends told me to leave her for good but I couldn’t I was hooked, I fought with some of my friends on the issue and lost many girls that would have done anything just to be mine cause I was in love and the person I was in love with ,wanted me but still wanted to have fun at the same time.
The final nail on the coffin, was when she told me she kissed my very close friend. I thought that was all, I could forgive that till one of my friend told me that our friend actually slept with my supposed girlfriend. I was dumbfounded cause my friend would not lie to me and when I asked her she didn’t deny it though she didn’t say  anything. That was it, the final straw I couldn’t go any further anymore. I was done, and I wasn’t going to date anymore in my life. 
3years down the line am dating again and the irony is tolu sent me a message on Facebook and said she wanted me back and regrets everything she had done in the past but it’s a case of being too late. It’s over now and thinking about it now I thank God cause she taught me a lesson and I appreciate love more contrary to what people might say after reading this, and I appreciate people that show true love and I try to give it back in return.
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Hmmm....I dont even know what to say. Would just wait for you guys to comment....so wt do you guys think about this story?

8 comments:

  1. As a yoruba adage says;Eni lori o ni fila,eni ni fila o lori.
    I'm happy he has moved on now.for NO reason should he go back to her.
    Deedee

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  2. Sigh* I'm speechless, glad he has moved on now, there's no reason trying to make it work, since he's happy where he is. What's with some Tolu girls anyway? A friend of mine is suffering this same fate too...

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  3. Wow!!dat was interestin...am rili hapi dat he has moved on

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  4. I think that name Tolu is jinxed. Had a heart-breaking experience with mine as well. When you're in a lop-sided relationship, you keep giving and hoping change will come. It usually takes something drastic before you can come to terms cos even though you know you should up and leave, the love pulls you back all d time. I'm still trying to move on. It will be a long time before I ever fall in love again.

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  5. Kamal i know how u feel, but u gotta wakeup and move on, those type of ladies want what they cant get and when they get it they feel bored and move on to the next target, u gotta let her go and move on with your life cause she would continually take advantage of you...and even after you move on she would test you to see if u rily have..... at this rate i wont name any of my babygirls Tolu ooo..lol...

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  6. Hmmm, 'being in love'. Usually, we say we're in love, and when love happens, we mostly think with our heart. Our heads (brains) might not be able to reason well but we have the gifts of friends & family to help us reason out what we can't see. Though our stubborn hearts would rather satisfy itself but when we get the experience we know that, once bitten, twice shy or forever shy (maybe).

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  7. Love I̶̲̥̅̊s a copmplex issue.

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