Some Things Are Better Left Unsaid

Am back...am feeling a bit down today..so have decided to cheer myself by blogging..hence the two posts...So you guys know have bin exploring my single life and just trying to have fun and I have bin hanging out a bit with Mr S...somethings happened recently that got me thinking....yh as usual.

I was thinking that there are some things that should be left unsaid or undone...let me explain..you know when you meet a guy and you like him..and then you are chatting and you feel tempted to ask him what he likes in a girl or the brave ones would ask what do you like abt me...or is it only me tht does that, I know I always ask tht question anytime I like a guy..what do you like in a girl and when he says those things...I start sifting out qualities i know I have in my head just to see if i have a chance...I know I hv issues

But recently, I learnt its not the best thing to do...now that we are in an era that guys have the big bum fever....hmmmm...I feel a bit insecure cos if you like someone as honest as Mr S..its a bit of a problem...I asked Mr S that question and he named some things..then he said before, I used to like girls with big bums but now am just about the inner qualities of a girl....well my heart sank a bit because I have a pancake bum..yes its that flat...poor me and anytime maybe am watching tv or walkin on the road with Mr S and I see a babe with a big bum....I start to feel uncomfortable but now I have told myself If Mr S leaves you for a girl with a big bum..then he was not the right person.

Another thing is dont go through a guy's phone because if you are not ready to find something wrong in your relationship..dont go searching...kk..wait let me rephrase....you can go through a guy's phone if you are suspicious about something but be ready for what you find. Something like that happened to me recently, I dont go through a guy's phone..i really dont have that much time but I got suspicious about something, so I decided to check it out and the things I found were dodgy....

I didn't want to confront him at first but when he became defensive and dramatic...I told him about it...he was upset about me going through his phone at first but he calmed down and apologized but even though everything is fine..sometimes I wish I didn't go through the phone. So blogfam, if u are not ready to leave that bliss of ignorance and you feel secure in your relationship...dont go through phones but if you are suspicious...check it out

Have said my piece and I feel happier alreadi....so what do you guys think....are somethings better left unsaid and undone