Advice for A Reader

Hi guys, so I got this mail from a reader who has sent a story about a Jerk in her life before...u cn read that story here if u haven't http://theverysinglegirl.blogspot.co.uk/2013/02/jerk-6-mr-f.html . Now she is in a happier place but she would like u guys to advise her. I know this is not a 'relationship' website per se but please read and advise her. Thanks

 Hi Jumoke,
Thanks for publishing my experience with Mr F. Now I've found the love I've been seeking but I'm in a dilemma, Finally,  someone who really cares about me asked me out last month, we have been friends for years though and, I was on top of the world. *shey I thot it would be harder*

Two weeks after agreeing to date him, I have lost all interest, if he doesn't call, I don't care, even if he pings, I don't feel like talking to him; I'm not as free as I used to be and I'm scared I might do the wrong thing for him to leave.

Sometimes last week, I asked him to leave me that I wasn't interested anymore and he had every reason for me to make him stay whether I wanted or not. I know I'm not treating him well and he's really trying.

I just dunno what's wrong with me or am I struggling to let go of the hurt? What can I do? I really don't want to hurt him and my mind is totally off.