Official or Unofficial

Hi guys, I know its bin a long while....so sorry but I have been so busy with school work and also had writer's block too but have finally broken the block...whoop!!!! So if u are an avid reader of this blog...you would know I have bin talking about Mr S for a while now and things are actually going really well.

So I went to visit a friend this weekend and we were just gisting when she asked how is ur boyfriend Mr S and I quickly told her he's not my boyfriend oo..we are just hanging out. I know my friend was just asking an innocent question and its easy for her to assume he is my bf especially with the amount of time Mr S and I spend together. Also its not like I dont want to date Mr S, its just that we have not had that convo....and I started thinking, how long should we be together for, before the convo happens...is there a set amount of months?

I miss those teenage years, u know when everything was just easy breezy *covergirl*.....that as long as u hold hands with a boy, or u guys talk all day and stuff...u knew u guys were boyfriend and girlfriend even without saying it..even if u guys didn't last long...at least u guys were sure of what you were.

There are signs that might suggest Mr S and I might make it official, we spend so much time together and we dont get bored with each other..he understands my sense of humor and makes me laugh..trust me that's hard. Also being official would make things easier..u know there are somethings I would like to talk to him about but then I cant because we are unoffcial..I dont want it to seem like am being pushy.

But I somehow like the fact that we are unofficial, cos I think labeling relationships sometimes destroys the easiness and fun...cos then you start to see and pick faults, also wen the guy doesn't do somethin that u know a bf should do...u get upset unlike when you were unofficial.

Anyways I would love to date Mr S, but we are in such a good place now, that I would just like to leave it like that. Am sure if we end up becoming official..it would be because its the right time and not because of the pressure to label the relationship.

So what do you guys think, how long should you wait to label a relationship after meeting someone  and who should bring up the topic