Tuesday, 18 June 2013

I hate long distance.....

Hey guys...I just watched 2face's rainbow video and its so nice....so sweet. Am sure Annie Idiba is the happiest girl on earth....I don't think I want a footballer husband again....I now want a musician husband cos I wud like to have a song and music video dedicated to me...lool. Enough with the daydreaming...time to get to business.

So now that am on break, I have enough time for my favourite hobby....thinking yo..and i am dreading this summer break because Mr S is planning on going back to Naija for the summer holiday and wont be back till September *crying* and me am stuck in Birmingham. The thing is even though we are not dating officially but we know we like each and we also spend so much time together that I cant even imagine him not here. God knows I hate long distance relationships...cnt deal, I like to be able to see the person I like anytime I want....and it's nt like we are dating ooo. 

My hatred and contempt for long distance relationship is a major reason why am still single, I dont want to be in the Uk and my bf in Naija...it's just not for me and I know it's nt like Mr S and I would be apart for long ooo...just 3 months but it still seems like forever. Couples that are in long distance relationships I believe are the strongest people ever...

Am also anxious...cos Iong distance relationships are the true test of commitment and trust in a relationship. I think the long distance ish plays on ur emotions and starts to make you wonder about the little things like he didn't call or not pick up when you call. Also it makes you learn not to be so dependent on your partner,  It's great to depend on ur partner and also want to be with them, but its great to retain one's personality and also be able to have fun without them.

But trust me, it's easier said than done...so now I have to find new hobbies...and you guys would have to keep me busy and help me through this long journey...*sobbing*

Anyways I just want to enjoy my last days with Mr S and we ordered a cake together...red velvet yo. And I just love how Mr S keeps referring to us in future terms...at least I know he expects us to be together for awhile. Hopefully, we can survive this long summer break.

So way do you guys think of long distance relationships...cn you have one?

4 comments:

  1. U've said it all...it takes a lot!
    Yes I can have 1...infact I do have 1

    Dee

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  2. LDR aint izi, hws ur best-friend(Aejae) copin with it ;)

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  3. U'll def survive it. It gives u time to miss him, so u'll have something to look forward to when he comes back. But Mr S can like to define dis relationship o!

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  4. But why do you keep refering to u guys as a couple if you are not dating?

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