Jerk 6: Mr F

 

 Hi guys, thanks to this reader for sending me her story, which is pretty heartbreaking. just to remind you guys that you can send your stories via email jumokesijuwade@ymail.com.
                                       
                                            THE STORY
    I met Mr F during NYSC and believe me, I was swept away by his looks and he was everything to look for in a guy. Fortunately for me, we were posted to the same work environs and at the end of one of our corpers meeting, he said Hi, can I have ur number? And I was like wow, what on earth would a good looking model want from a plus size girl like me and to think He actually knew my name, I was stunned... Well I gave him my number and we became friends.

  I was very much single then and I had a male best friend that followed me everywhere, gradually ,Mr  F and I stopped communicating cos he was the ladies man and all d skinny babes were after him so I kept my distance, although I stole quick looks at him whenever we met.Then we never met till the last day of NYSC and parted ways, that was in 2010.

Early last year after a terrible breakup from my ex, Mr F sent me a message on Facebook and we exchanged pins... I was so glad and felt my dreams were turning to reality. He was so happy and started expressing his feelings and how he withdrew from me cos he thought my bestfriend was
my boyfriend.

To cut the long story short, the next month, Mr F asked me out and I was so elated! He couldn't  wait,he wanted to marry me immediately, I became his mum's friend and even some of his siblings, what else could I ask for? He kept telling me he needs to save up a little more to get me the ring
of my dreams. Finally, I was grateful and felt this was my last bus stop.Yeah, my dreams were turning to reality.

A few days to my 24th birthday, he called to tell me he was coming over and I was so glad. After all  my hopes and preparations, Around 11pm on my birthday eve, he called to breakup with me, with no reasonable explanation, he deleted me from his bbm and removed me from his facebook friends...Imagine the devastation.I cried! I called him, he didn't pick up.

Some days after my birthday, I was still wondering why, then I searched for him on facebook again just to discover that the girl he claimed to be a close friend was already engaged to him and pregnant for him. There were a lot of congratulatory comments and I almost fainted, how long have I been a fool for?

I was shattered..He called me a month later to tell me he wants me back and that i should send my pin that he has forgiven me and I wondered, forgive me for what?

Really, is it a crime to love? I have not spoken to him since then, I've been trying to pick up d pieces of my life but I find it hard to move on or love anyone, in a few months, I'll be 25 but I'm still lost in this love world.
                                         THE END

And I thought I met the worst boys..wow..Mr F is definitely more than a Jerk. I just want to tell this reader that she should not worry, brighter days are ahead. So what do you guys think of this story.

Also, I just want to clarify that the stories you want to send in don't have to be about jerks, it could also be about terrible dates, the crazy things you have experienced in the world of dating. Cant wait to hear from you guys.