Tuesday, 30 April 2013

'Dramatic'


 Hey blogfam...wts happening...its bin awhile and have missed you guys. So lets get started and do what we do best. So I was lying on my bed some few days ago and doing my best hobby...thinking. Now that I have bin dating a lot and just going through the journey of dating...I have met so many guys that always say something that annoys me and that is 'Girls are too dramatic' ...I hate that statement so much and I have bin hearing it a lot.

First of all...I need guys to classify and clarify what 'dramatic' is because I think guys mistake dramatic with nagging. Just because a girls wants to talk doesn't mean she is dramatic, I think its better guys start to realize that girls and boys are different with the way they express their emotions..guys can afford to shut themselves out and act normal even when they are feeling emotionally down but girls like to express their emotions, they like to talk...so if thats bin dramatic..then oh well.

Then another annoying thing is when girls because they just really want to have a bf so badly would na say 'am not dramatic...I hate drama'...*yimu* I think girls that say that always turn out to be the most dramatic ones. Guys have to realize that drama is what makes we girls interesting...its the dramatic and emotional side of a girl that makes us the great lovers we are.

I think this dramatic issue too comes out also when a guy knows that he has done something wrong and the girl just wants to talk...then the dramatic allegation comes out. Abeg if guys cant stand the drama we girls have, then they can have gay relationships *shikena*. Also guys should make sure they clarify the difference between nagging and dramatic...being dramatic is not we girls nagging.

Am very passionate about this dramatic ish cos I used to distance myself from bin dramatic nd all bt then have come to realize I am dramatic and that doesn't stop me from bin the best girlfriend ever. I think every boy should just remember the drama DNA strand in us is what makes us fun and great, and relationships would be so boring without all the drama. Like guys just think back to all the angry sex you have had because of the girl bin dramatic..was it not like the best #okbye

So what do you guys think... Do you think boys dont know the difference between being dramatic and nagging?  And is bin dramatic not fun?  is it not what makes us the best.

I would like to wish my darlin friend Onome a happy bday and he's a big fan of the blog and also an inspiration...hp you have a great day.

4 comments:

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  2. There's fun drama I think...that way we no you still care then there's the psycho unnecessary drama. Now that is unnecessary. Thanks jummy

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  3. Simply put, every girl has some drama attached to her and it's fun!... But thanks for clearing the air; there's a huge difference in nagging and being dramatic.

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  4. Dramatic; ladies got drama we know, but different guys hav different treshhold to handling dis drama so my advice a guy should go for a girl in which he can handle her drama....dramas i dont like but the makeup afta such drama hmmmmm interesting...lol

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