Hello blogfam..hp u guys are good nd u hd a great weekend...my weekend ws jst bleh. Anyways I hv gist for u guys..smethin happened to me tht got me thinking...as usual. I was with a friend in her house when two of her male friends came over and one of the guys was like looking at me sha..eyeing me yo..kk me too I was eyeing him sha... he was cute, dark, tall and well dressed..
Lets call him Mr T, so we started talking, he was realli cool, spoke good english and was pretty funny...anyways since that day we have bin talkin and its actualli good cos he takes my mind off Mr S...kk..the but is about to drop...He is 37yrs old..so thats like 13yrs old than me...
So I started thinking, can I date an older guy and I dont mean like two or three years older...i mean like ten years older. I dont know if its only me, I find older guys really sexy...the ones that dont look their age oo and are still very cool. I think older guys actually make good boyfriends, cos they know how to love, treat you right and also handle every drama you give them with sense. I dont know if its cos I just met Mr T, thats why am thinking like this but I think I hv always liked older guys.
But with our mentality in Naija, when you are with an older guy, everyone thinks you want his money, and I doubt if my mum would be so excited if I date an older guy, but the ish some older guys look way better than the younger ones but there's a downside to dating older guys, like am not yet dating Mr T and I feel constricted by the respect and age issue,like there are somethins I would have joked with a younger guy about and maybe even call him like olodo or something funny...I just feel like I cnt do that with Mr T, cos he would get upset.
Anyways I still find older guys sexy and am having fun with Mr T...you never know where it would go........
So what do you guys think...can you date an older guy?
There's absolutely nothing wrong with dating an older guy. Growing up, my mum always told my sis n I 'd older, the better'. Personally I ve my limits as 2 how old a guy should be before I can date him. But if I can do an analysis of all my relationships, d older guys ve always proven to be better in all ramifications buh its still a personal decision
ReplyDeleteFrom all the older guys I've met(though I haven't dated any that old) I seem to prefer them to age mates or ones that are few years older. They just seem to have all d answers to your questions. Still it's a decision you have to make on your own.
ReplyDeleteDating older guys cn b rili cool so long as he is stil single. N rili, u cud say nytin u wud v said 2 a younger guy. Dey get fascinated by d young n childish tinz of ur own generation. Bt, u 'll learn 2 b respectful, I mean more respectful dan u wud wt ur mate. Bt rili, I tink dey r way beta.
ReplyDeleteSweetie,I bet u older guys are really cool,u will love the experience,have dated one which seem to be cool,but atimes age is nothing but a number some guys are really old but when is comes to the their IQ is so low, but be sure he his not into anything of the past, EX.... And sort of, considering the age if he want more in the dating define the relationship,but they are much much much better than young guys. beebee
ReplyDeleteYea, y una come breakup if he was "so" good
Deletemuch better than young guys hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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ReplyDeleteY d hmmmmmnnn now ehn, mr. 21. N bdw, age is just a number, so go for d 1 dar suits u!!!
ReplyDeleteLove the blog hun but I'm not a big fun of text talk. Too distracting.
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